Summary
Last week, my company sent me on a week-long course where I met a woman and we had a fling during that short time. I've never done anything like that before. I've been married for 12 years and love my wife. She would be devastated if she knew what I have done and living with the guilt is killing me, but I can't get this woman out of my head. Should I tell my wife?
I am always advocating honesty in relationships; being open with each other and truthful. But on this occasion, unless you want to pursue a relationship with this other woman, I'd say no, stay quiet about your affair. What would be the purpose of telling your wife about it now? You know it would cause devastation, huge amounts of pain and trust issues. It may assuage your guilt but it's your secret. I would suggest you explore why you had the affair and what you got from it. What was your relationship like with your wife at that time? Was it going through a staid period and the affair brought excitement and passion? If this makes sense, focus on your relationship and rekindle the passion and excitement for you both.See the full content of this document
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Dear Alison
MY partner and I have been toget...
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